It’s not often you see a film that really makes you think, then think some more. Not just about the terrible events that hit Josh and Devorah, the subjects and directors of this outstanding documentary, but about how they made the film and why we are watching it.
The New Man begins as an entertaining, self-aware account of an intelligent, boho guy struggling to come to terms with the idea of being a Dad. But despite his angst, Josh seems to have a pretty blessed life. When he turns for advice to friends that include sculptor Antony Gormley and philosopher Slavoj Zizek, it only underlines his liberal, metropolitan elite credentials. Come on, what have you got to worry about?
We are about to find out. While Josh has a pre-fatherhood jaunt abroad, there’s a problem with Devorah’s scan. It looks like one of the twins isn’t going to make it and the other’s life hangs in the balance. Josh’s existential worries evaporate and the advice from his Dad and others, still ringing warmly in my ears, falls to silence.
At the same time, I cant help quietly computing the tragic reality of the situation with its perfect story timing. The knowledge that Josh is also a successful drama director plays on my mind just as I struggle with the reality of what he is going through. Others may be wondering why Josh carried on filming. When life and death are at stake what does a film matter? But we want to find out what happens next, while simultaneously guilty at wanting story closure at a time like this. As a result of these complex feelings, we become almost as implicated and involved in the film making as we are in the real events unfolding.
When it comes to those events, the cliché is ‘unflinching’. What that often means is straightforward tear-jerking, with complex characters reduced to emotion-inducing victims. But in The New Man, Josh and Devorah never stop being the couple we have come to know and, thanks to their honesty and wit, like. They still argue, feel guilty and joke as they celebrate the birth of their son while mourning the death of his twin.
Not always easy to watch but consistently brilliant, The New Man creates a unique level of engagement. That’s a pretty spectacular achievement at a time when the personal and confessional are a major draw for both mainstream and indie filmmakers.
I left the cinema in awe of Josh and Devorah as people and filmmakers, wanting to be their best friend and watch their next film. While that may sound a little creepy, it’s the sort of response that every Hollywood studio would die for.
Watch the film here:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/New-Man-Josh-Appignanesi/dp/B01N9OTKM5